Tuesday, July 31, 2012

Errand Queen vs Chocolate Channel Surfer


I specifically remember a phone call I had with my sister about 10 years ago, when she asked me what I was “on”. At the time I laughed & thought “I’m not ‘on’ anything…I’m just this awesome!” Let me explain. I was in the middle of running errands when my phone rang. Now, despite the fact that I had wet nails from a mani/pedi & was also holding my purse, keys, dry cleaning & a video tape I had to return (yes, remember…10 years ago), I felt the need to answer my phone. It was no bother, I was just on my way to the bank, the grocery store & then I was going to go home & clean the bathroom & do all my laundry before I went shopping for a friend’s birthday & stopped by another friend’s BBQ. After all,  I had to be home by 7pm to host cocktails before going to dinner, though. When I gave all of this information as my run-on-sentence answer to my sister’s casual question “Whatchya doin?”, she had good reason to inquire about the possibility of chemical interference. I mean, I can’t imagine getting all this stuff done in one day, but I sure did. I can actually think of lots of days like this. Can’t you? You know, it’s that day that you get absolutely everything on your list done because you are well rested, responsible, together & just generally the most awesome person in the entire world. What’s the harm in taking credit where credit’s due?

I’ll tell you.

If you think you are the most awesome, together person in the world when you are having a really productive day, what do you think of yourself when you don’t? My guess is that you think much the same of yourself as I & most other women I’ve spoken with. “I just can’t get it together” “What’s wrong with me?” “I have no energy” “I am so scattered; I don’t think I’ve gotten ONE thing on my list done!” Sound familiar?

Today, I’d like to ask you to take a moment and think about who you are as a woman…what you’re made of & what you’re ruled by. Hormones greatly affect our sex drive, appetite, alertness, sleep patterns, brain function and so much more! If you don’t believe me, take it from a real expert, Gabrielle Lichterman of www.MyHormonesMadeMeDoIt.com. The first time I saw this site, I swear, it was like being born again! Reading through what goes on inside each and every one of us women throughout our regular cycle is not just interesting; it’s comforting & even downright hysterical.

So, the next time you are laying on the couch watching reality television & you can’t manage to get up off the couch to get a 3rd helping of toast with honey (ok, maybe it was oreos and ice cream), don’t feel bad. Just prop your feet up on that pile of clean laundry you haven’t folded yet & relax. This feeling isn’t permanent. That other girl- the one you were last week- she’ll save the day and do all the things you don’t feel like doing right now, don’t worry. Most of all, don’t beat yourself up. Slow down and be who you are today. Errand Queen doesn't scarf chocolate and channel surf, does she? Right. So, why are you beating yourself up for not doing what she does?

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